A Realization..

"Clark Kent adopted a largely passive and introverted personality, applying conservative mannerisms a higher-pitched voice, and a slight slouch. This personality is typically described as "mild-mannered," perhaps most famously by the opening narration of Max Fleischer's Superman animated theatrical shorts. These traits extended into Clark's wardrobe, which typically consists of a softly-colored business suit, a red necktie, black-rimmed glasses (which in Pre-Crisis stories had lenses of Kryptonian material that would not be damaged when he fired his heat vision through them), combed-back hair and, occasionally, a fedora."

- thank you Wikipedia : )

I need to remember, it's not that I wish to find specifically the dark hair, light eyes and rimmed glasses man. It's the intelligent, funny, quirky, and humble personality in a man that I wish to find. I'm sure every girl would love to be whisked away by a Superman or even a Batman, but I am realizing, Superman and Batman do not last. The importance of Clark Kent is his awesome personality and his alter-ego, the hotness of Superman comes second.

I'm sure, like me, you in your 20s go out with girlfriends. You see a guy at the bar- the guy who knows his shit don't stink. You're attracted to him- he knows it. You date him. His hots wear away, you go through a quick up and down with him and all of a sudden your single again. You find yourself asking, "what happened?" "what did I do wrong?". Your emotions are totally hung up and your calling your girlfriends and best gay friend trying to figure out what went wrong and how much he could have been your husband... I have done this more then once!!! I'm thinking, I'm realizing, there's a reason why he's single. Why's he has been single for so long...he's got issues....and I caught his issues like the plague.

Lesson learned. Why don't I try something different. I, when I'm in my thirties, old and weary, retired, and even near death want someone who played with me, our children, who had a down to earth, amazing, intelligent, sweet, funny, nice, maybe even "mild-mannered, slight slouch, combed back hair and an occasional fedora" personality. But the secret, is that to me, TO ME, he is the hottest, sexiest, hero of my life.